Crimes against women are rampant in many countries. The most common crime against women is domestic abuse. But in certain Asian countries, it’s even dangerous to step out of the home, because there’s the fear of being assaulted, tortured and worst of all; murdered and raped.
There was one episode in which a Muslim woman in “tudung” – this is a Muslim girls etiquette; to wrap a scarf like cloth on their head, boarded a bus and was the only passenger on board. The bus driver drove the bus into a secluded area and raped the girl, sodomized her, and eventually strangling her to death with the scarf round her head. Even in the home, women may have an abusive spouse and these girls are known as confronting domestic abuse.
Contrary to this, it’s sometimes not the abusive partner who’s 100% guilty. Occasionally it may be the fault of both parties but the majority of the times, women are always the victim in domestic abuse. Sadly, many women that are victims of domestic abuse don’t measure up for their rights especially in the Asian countries and so giving their abusive domestic partners more reason to continue with their atrocities. Now comes to the question why do most Asian girls continue to put up with these abuse; and from my point of view is that we don’t understand that prevention is always better than cure.
Crime and violent confrontations are rather traumatic and must be avoided at all costs. A good deal of women or men aren’t conscious when faced with compromising circumstances, this is easily prevented if we stepped up for ourselves. The best way to prevent these situations is to firstly, convince ourself emotionally that any kind of physical violence is unacceptable regardless of how much we love our spouse.
There’s absolutely no explanation and no compromise and all girls shouldn’t assume it is as they are not a fantastic spouse, girlfriend or mother. Neither can these abusive spouses believe their actions are actions of love or due to the lost of the temper they are permitted to treat their spouses this way. Mostly, women are reluctant to discuss their problems because they would like to protect their spouses and in doing this, it might cause more pain and bitterness in the upcoming future.
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Many victims of abuse, suffer silently as they’re afraid to share. Being a victim, an individual must never isolate themselves from the rest of society. Women must always Think of the kids. Abusive relationships will cause young children to develop in a traumatic environment and I am certain that we do not need the violent behavior to be inherited on to another generation that’s the children.
Abused women shouldn’t be worried if they were to lose their shelter when they take the proper action since there are always government that may help or assist and there’ll always be refuge from churches, NGOs or other lands that are specifically set up for those functions. But women always being the weaker partner must never resort to physical confrontations, but if it does occur, there’s only 1 advice that’s mind over matter. Women have to win the battle within the brain prior to winning the struggle with their fists.