What kind of Woman are You?

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Why is it that we as women go through so much to pain in order for men to look at us? I think that it’s because we seek outside approval to confirm our existence. We feel that if we’re perfect enough we’ll then be worthy enough to attract and retain true love, the perfect man who will love and respect us.

All about Alpha Man

But the fact of the matter isn’t a guy is ever going to love and respect us more than we love and respect ourselves. Alpha male. Read the qualities of this so-called-perfect-man, and then determine if you’re a Barbie Doll, Faded Beauty or Timeless Beauty. Who are alpha males Hugh Hefner, Donald Trump, Michael Jordan famous wealthy athletes, film stars. Show me a man who’s famous and wealthy, and I’ll show you a guy who’s 99.9% likely to be unfaithful in a committed relationship.

The alpha male is the person from the area whom the others follow and defer to. Humans and their closest species-relatives, the chimpanzees, show deference to the alpha of the community by ritualized gestures like bowing, letting the alpha to walk in a procession, or standing apart when the alpha challenges. Canines also show deference to the alpha group in their package, by letting them be the first to eat and, usually, the only pair to mate. The standing of alpha is usually achieved by way of superior physical prowess. Listed below are a few of the qualities of the human alpha man.

When a man is extraordinary wealthy it doesn’t matter how physically attractive he is since his prosperity is a babe magnet. Women will throw themselves at men that are wealthy, successful, or famous so as to enhance their quality of living. Most alpha males even if they are in committed relationships, will find sexual intimacy beyond the committed relationship. Most alpha men have difficulty interconnecting sex, loyalty and love into one bundle. Alpha males generally believe he deserves to have more than 1 woman. Alpha men not only collect expensive cars, firearms, cigars and antiques, their collection also include sexual relationships with beautiful women.

Are You A Barbie Doll, Faded Beauty Or Timeless Beauty Woman?

Having a bevy of beautiful women is encouraged and expected behaviour of wealthy men that are successful.

Barbie Doll

Alpha men need Barbie Dolls so as to keep their ultra masculine male dominate standing in society. Barbie Dolls have the ultra feminine characteristics that enhance his superior status. Barbie dolls are plastic. You have to spend money on cosmetic surgery to keep your youthful look at all price tag. Implants, liposuction, rhinoplasty, breasts lifts, cellulite removal, botox injections, chemical peels and other practices to maintain or obtain your outer appearance are essential so as to compete for his affection and care.

Barbie dolls don’t talk. Alpha men require a woman who’s not likely to whine about his extended work hoursthat he spends his “boys,” his connection with other girls and his lack of involvement in domestic matters. Barbie dolls smile all of the time. The alpha male desires a woman who does not show her feelings of unhappiness in the relationship. She will smile when she learns he has conceived a child beyond the committed relationship. Barbie dolls can be set on the shelf once the alpha male is finished playing with her. When he falls in love with a younger, hippernew version with fuller lips, he does not need to think about the long term impacts of breaking of her heart.

Barbie dolls want and seek material accessories. The alpha male knows that as long as he’s prepared to buy her large, fancy houses, expensive cars and jewellery; he does not need to worry about being faithful and loyal to the connection. Barbie dolls require a good deal of costly monetary upkeep. The alpha male gets the money to give her whatever she needs as it validates his riches and prestige. Barbie dolls can travel or move at a moment’s notice. She’s a travel case that comes with her since she doesn’t have a career or goals that can’t be forfeited or thwarted for an alpha male. She changes locations depending on the requirements of the alpha male. Barbie dolls are always perfect and stunning, even naked. Alpha men want trophy wives and arm pieces to accompany them to elaborate events. Dieting, exercising and maintaining an impeccable physical appearance is critical to stay appealing to the Alpha male. The Barbie doll’s desirability is based on her ability to maintain the alpha male sexually curious and fulfilled because of the competition and accessibility of different dolls.

The Barbie dolls childhood and unchanging beauty is her best asset. She has a brief shelf life. She has to have as many kids as fast as possible to assure her financial future in old age when she’s no longer attractive or ready to reproduce. Barbie dolls do not ask questions. She’s not likely to question the alpha man about their future together, his assets or his Swedish bank accounts. She does not question pre-nuptial agreements since she knows that her time is limited in the relationship because she won’t have the ability to compete with the newer versions and editions which are marketed every year.

Barbie dolls are hollow on the inside since they should have extreme low-self esteem so as to put up with the Alpha man’s malarkey. The alpha male’s presence in her life supports her outside existence. She considers that her outside, physical appearance is the thickness of who she is. Maybe you have noticed a woman who appears all fifty-five, but is hoping to look and behave as if she’s twenty-five?

A faded beauty is a woman who feels and endeavors in her behaviours that her best years are behind her, and that her self-esteem and self-worth is based on her physical appearance and how she compares to other girls. A faded beauty desperately holds on to her young beauty stressing that without it she’s invisible.

Faded beauty Woman

These are signs that you’re a faded beauty. In high school, faculty or throughout your overall youth you were thought of as the most beautiful and hottest woman around. The men adored you and you could have any guy that you wanted. Now you’ve married and / or had kids you feel frumpy, old and unattractive. With no looks, you don’t have any idea of who you are and where you belong in life. You spend the majority of your time considering how you use to appear back on your heyday. You have not changed your hairstyle, makeup, or style of clothing since you’re seventeen-years-old. You emotionally compare yourself to younger girls thinking to yourself how to take there guy, if you’re 10 years younger.

You wear heavy make-up to hide the bags under your eyes, the wrinkles and age spots on your face. You feel that with no make up you’re unattractive, even if going for a walk or quick run to the supermarket or gas station. Your focus is totally on ways to enhance or how you hate your physical appearance. You have not heard anything new in the past ten decades. You don’t read novels, you have not taken any courses, and you do not volunteer your time. You’re bored with your life. If you speak to somebody who hadn’t spoken to you in a decade, what would new things would you tell them about your life? For those who have nothing new to talk about you’re a faded beauty; not due to these natural changes in your physical body but due to the absence of changes on your contribution to this presence, even if it’s looking for a new recipe or taking a dance class.

You do not like to leave the home as you don’t look how you did before giving birth to your children or just gaining weight. Faded beauties believe their self-worth is merely their physical appearance. You do not bother to purchase new clothes or wear make-up, since you believe you want to first lose weight or have cosmetic surgery before you can love and accept yourself.

Timeless Beauty Woman

Oprah Winfrey, Meryl Streep, Angelina Jolie, Barbara Streisand, Queen Latifah and Sophia Loren are Some of the girls whom I believe to be ageless beauties. An ageless beauty is like wine, every passing year she becomes more beautiful than the prior year, not because of what she looks like on the exterior; regardless of how physically attractive she is, but because of who she’s on the interior exudes class, charisma, compassion and personal ethics that’s authentic and alluring.

There’s something special about her that’s irreplaceable. They wear clothing that express their individual character, body and soul. They mesmerize and captivate people with their wisdom, thoughts, empathy and compassion for others. They are emotionally and physically irreplaceable. You can’t place another body, face, or individual in their place. Their personalities are lively and alluring and if they’re gone they will be sorely missed. They’re not “drama queens” or “divas” that they are easy to get along with and are team players. They’ve a humbleness and humility about them which is breathtaking.

They aren’t involved in romantic relationships where they aren’t honored and respected by their spouses. They’re happy alone or in a committed relationship with a guy who loves them unconditionally. She does not attempt to behave or wear apparel for a woman who’s half her biological age. She seems healthy and loves being in her own skin and exudes an unexplainable beauty. She’s interests, talents and skills that she exhibits in a positive light. She loves volunteering and sharing her wisdom and life experiences with other people. As she ages, her make-up becomes more subtle, much less a fashion statement but only because she’s learned over time that her true beauty can’t be concealed underneath her make-up.

She isn’t afraid to say no. She’s learned to honor her time in the world. She’s not a people pleaser and doesn’t allow others to impose their orders on her time. She’s confident in expressing her own opinions, thoughts, and beliefs without worrying about offending others. She’s confident and wise enough to accept and respect opinions that are different from her own without feeling threatened. You can not figure out why she’s beautiful.