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    Are You Ashamed Of Being A Woman?

    Some of the best advice I’ve ever received is”A man must love the girl more than the girl loves the man” in a relationship because girls will always give over the guy. If both are to be on equal playing fields, then the man must come to the table ready to do more. The reason I believe that is such great advice is because I see it to be authentic.

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    Women are naturally more receptive to emotions because they are caregivers and must nurture the things around them. They wish to fix issues with their words rather than their activities. But then I’ve begun thinking to myself- why does this have to be authentic? Why is it that women feel as though they must give a lot more without getting anything in return? I do it all of the time, expecting nothing from something. I’ve started to detect these inconsistencies, and the expectations for women to fit this mould. Men, and other ladies, expect us to give more.

    They look to us for information, they look to us for favors, and we graciously accept happily knowing that we are a significant part of their lives. But is that which we give all that we must offer as women? My biggest issue with this realization is how it may label me as a feminist, a term I want no association with. I feel as feminism has such a nasty stigma- it is those girls who do not shower, do not shave, and parade about calling all guys chauvinist pigs. However, the irony here is that the motion to permit approval for lady is stunted because of the inherent connotation that girls are below men.

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    Recently I watched the Beyonce documentary “Life is But a Dream”, where Beyonce opens up about her life, her struggles, and most of all, what it means to her to be a woman. She exclaims that her husband taught her how to become a woman. Although I don’t think girls need a man to teach them how to be anything, I think it’s amazing that she can learn things about herself. I believe that should be the role of people – they need to care for each other, push each other to grow, but also allow one another to succeed. Seeing girls so fearlessly march forwards in their career no matter their home life is so empowering because they’re showing us that girls can do everything.

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    Beyonce is amazing because she’s such a hard worker, but is so devoted to her art, her passions, and her loved ones that she always makes time for all of it. She chooses to navigate life on her terms, with a man she loves by her side, supporting her, and she does not let anything stop her. If she saw something which was not up to her standard, she was reluctant to say anything because people may assume she is bossy. But now she is not afraid of what she desires. She does not feel guilty by her achievements, by her desires and desires, or by her vision for the future.

    She is not allowing herself to be stunted because others around her can not push themselves up the way she can. She’s empowering because she is a strong female chasing her dreams. I think where the feminist movement has gone wrong is that they tried too tough to become anti-feminie and ended up getting overly manly. They forgot they were fighting for girls to love who they are as women, rather than having to alter their feminist qualities to be successful. Another woman who’s making her mark is Sheryl Sandberg, Facebook’s Chief Operating Officer, a fancy word that means she is a billionaire in California’s Silicon Valley. She recently published a book called”Lean In” that challenges girls to lean in their careers, motherhood, and relationships.

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    She finds that “we hold ourselves back in ways both large and small, by lacking self-confidence, by not raising our hands, and by pulling back when we should be leaning in”. Sandberg is another girl, like Beyonce, because she’s both beautiful and effective. She’s married to a man, with two young kids, and a career enviable by many. To hear her talk sounds really natural, but nearly poetic. She has no shame is being a woman’s woman, but also chooses to stand up and fight for women’s rights. Women deserve a place in the office because they’re more careful by naturally thinking more since they seldom spontaneously act. However, women underestimate their capacity to function as both a mother and a career woman.

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    They start to hold themselves back when they start considering marriage and a family. Sandberg shows us that we could be equally, we can be prosperous in all aspects of our life, we do not have to pick – and then face criticisms from society in our selection. I love being a girl because I truly do love sneakers, emotions and guys. I really don’t want to need to compromise any part of my passions just to match. I would like to be powerful and successful without needing to knock myself down, or cut my own hair. Women are terrific. Women are beautiful creatures and must be able to succeed as they’re caring, giving and nurturing.

    Conclusion

    These are characteristics that needs to be viewed as marketable, rather than shameful. We shouldn’t feel guilty, or not up to par, just because we’re women. We must come to the table imagining that we bring a different set of skills, but skills which are valuable, and important. I just believe we ought to be confident in the fact that we are women, and that we deserve the identical parcel of freedom and happiness as anyone else. We do not have to knock-down guys in our pursuit to the top, we only need to admit our own strengths and broadcast those.

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