The Number 1 Thing a Mother Must Do! Attention all mothers! Martyrdom is dead. Take it from a reformed people pleasing veteran, if you would like to live a happy, fulfilled life you will need some help to eliminate the desire to please other people before yourself. Basically the more help you get the faster you reform.
What to do?
Hire a trainer, a counsellor or seek out a group tailor made for people pleasers. Truly the biggest obstacle for anyone who have this disease-to-please is convincing themselves that they’re worth the time, effort and money of getting some expert help. So I imagine you may have some difficulty in that area so allow me to tell you something which may motivate you.
This applies to all parents, whether they operate in the house or out of the house. Go look at your daughter and consider all the times you’ve put others before yourself. ThinK of all of the times you felt guilty for taking care of your own needs. Remember, you’re teaching her about the way to be a girl. Your daughter is learning from you on how to make herself important in the world.
Keep in mind
If you’re not even on the list of significance then will she be, do you believe your daughter would be worth the time, energy and money that you find assistance in this field? Every time you put someone ahead of yourself, imagine it’s really your daughter who’s going to be last? Would you act the same way? The only way to teach our children self esteem and self love is to respect and appreciate ourselves. Another obsolete thought is that children learn from what we say not what we do, WRONG!
They are sensitive sponges that benefit their understanding of the world from each the activities of those around them. You’re also teaching you son about women. He’ll treat women exactly how you treat yourself. Now, that is a gift that keeps on giving. True to a pleaser’s form, I imagine right now you’re riddled with guilt because you read my words. Mothers, you will need to get on the list. The list of things which you consider important. Now the moment you begin to create a shift and start to transform your self importance your sponges (your kids ) will start to learn too. It’s never too late, we’re always teaching our children irrespective of how old they are.
Imagine the fantastic gift you may give your kids when you seek out expert, professional assistance in this area, you will teach your son and daughter how to reach out for assistance when they wants it. Ready for the next step? Are you prepared to move forward? Liane gives the greatest support, encouragement and the honest, straightforward information you require! To date Liane has had a 100% success rate with her customers! If you haven’t already, subscribe to Liane’s completely free, no obligation newsletter, Straight Talk! Ezine. Liane does not mince words or sugar coat the truth and won’t ever allow you to fall! Liane will provide you the tools and expertise to change anything you want about yourself, your relationships and your life! Don’t wait! You’re missing out on the very advice you require! You will love the information you’re about to receive! All subscribers get a free gift when they sign up!